Generally I'm pretty secure about my looks. I mean, I don't think about them too much. Sure I'm a bit overweight, but I'm fighting genetics here. In a crowd, I don't especially stand out, I'm very, well, average.
But recently there have been some strange things said by family that are making me wonder whether my assessment of my own looks is way off base. Maybe I'm like the hunchback, and I've just conditioned myself to think I'm normal?
Here are some of the gems I've heard lately.
You weren't a beautiful child. You were a "cute" kids. But my, you're such a beautiful woman now.
...and then my friend said, "Wow, she's really pretty" and then I stopped to think about it and yeah, you are.
...and even with that forehead, you're very pretty ...
...and you're not *too* fat ...
And so, dear family, I just want you all to know that you people look just like me!